I also said I was sorry for how I found out this information about them. I think she will know what I mean by that. I really am sorry for that, it just breaks my heart .
I had received the most wonderful card from my very first friend in this IF journey I would like to share those words here, I read them over and over as a way to help me cope:
It is difficult for other to understand
the depth of the loss we feel
for the child who will never be born.
Even those closest to us
may wonder why
we cant seem to get over it.
What they don't understand is
how we already loved that little one
and love never ends.
Though the dreams and plans we had
must be gently laid to rest
we each must take our own time
and, in our own way, find the strength
to let hope be a part of us once again.
If you need someone to talk to,